Think back to when you were a child. Picture yourself playing with your favorite toy. Where you happy? Of course you were. Surrounded by your friends, you played war with GI Joes, dress up with Barbie, or had a teddy bear you took everywhere (mine was A.G. Bear and he talked. I still have him too).
In fact, many (maybe even most) people have actually been exposed to the opposite: Emotional avoidance, emotional abuse, emotional manipulation, emotional deception, etc.
The key term used in this article is Wisdom of Heart. It’s a new term to denote this kind of people and it’s an extension of the common term EI-emotional intelligence. We classify these people under this head.
Think back to your own childhood. Do it now, lean back, close your eyes and think for a few minutes through your childhood memories. What are your favorite memories, the ones that make you happy? When groups of adults are asked this question, the answers are consistently memoires that have to do with outside play, friends, imaginative play, family trips etc. None of them have to do with workbooks, watching tv or even with adult led play.
Fast forward to today and the internet generation. There is a term floating out there called Web 2.0. No it is not the latest version of some technology tool crafted by Microsoft. The term is used to describe the direction the internet has moved to and that is social networking.
The simple cure for Generation Excess, it seems, is not a three letter word, but only two-NO. A child needs know that there are limitations to everything. They need to see that not everything can be obtained on a whim. It is the media’s job to make us-the consumers-feel that we need it all. It is our job to teach the children that some things are earned. Meegan Francis, author of “It’s Okay to Say No” explains that children suffer when parents do for them. She says that children need to know that they can do for themselves; this is what really builds self esteem. It also promotes emotional intelligence needed as they grow and interact with the world at large.
They could pick from the ones that take them back towards earliest civilization when man make gear out from stones, to those that let them nurse a dinosaur. The plus part is you can guide your children which dinosaur king games to decide. You can now all have the household duties done as the young one is busy having fun with his favorite dinosaur game.
Make sure you hang out in lot of clubs or pubs with friends where your ex is present. Enjoy a lot and flirt with others to make her/him jealous. Your ex will surely return back to you. Never give up hope while doing something good in life.